Re: Phobias
Posted by:
Magda (---.dialip.mich.net)
Date: April 30, 2003 03:31AM
Technically, in the US they don't *have* remove you unless you ask to be ADDED to their DO NOT call list. Just asking to be taken off the call list, they can legally ignore.
BTW, replying in any way to unsolicited spam email is usually a bad idea. Many spammers will flag messages that they get "remove" messages from as active email accounts that actually get read, and sell them to more spammers.
I'm a mild Phone-o-phobe myself. I would much rather talk to someone either in person or via email than on the phone, and I tend to put off making calls as long as I possibly can (and often longer than I should). My mother and uncle are the same way, actually.
I'm thrilled when I can do something by email instead of by phone, because I actually have time to decide exactly what to say, and don't have to worry about unanticipated questions or responses. (Improvisation is not one of my talents). And I like it when I can get the information I need using automated touch tone systems instead of having to talk to a real person. If I screw up, I just call back and nobody's the wiser.
When I do have to call someone I don't know, I also carefully think out (and sometimes write out) what I want to say. And I *love* caller ID, since I know either that it's something I can let the machine answer, or if it's someone I know, I know who it is before I pick up.
If I ever did get a cell phone, almost nobody would get the number, and I'd have it turned off most of the time. Especially since here in the States you have to pay for incoming calls yourself (I've heard that's not necessarily so in europe).
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